VENT TIME!!!

First off I know I said I would update once a week, oh well maybe next week. Today is not a happy, cheery, wedding bliss day. Today is a rant and rave day!

Lets start with the beginning. My MIL's husband is an ASS!!! My MIL and SIL do pills and God only knows what else. My BIL who is only 17 is living the good life in FL, with a bag a weed at a time, and beer and cigs complements of my SIL and MIL! WTF!!!!!

I love them all and maybe that is why it makes me so mad but I have had enough of that behavior from them. I could never trust them to be in my house alone or with my children. And I hate feeling this way because it is the only part of Justin's family that actually cares for him.

The next reason I am upset is this. My BIL got a job at the bar and grill that my MIL works at washing dishes. They pay him cash under the table, illegal but whatever, that does not make me too mad. What does make me mad is instead of paying him and he learning responsibility to pay his share of the rent and bills, my MIL lovingly told their boss to give her his money!!! They dont give it to him AT ALL!!! WTF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! She is wanting him to hate life and not know any responsibility and not want to have a job. She is not even saving it for him she is using it on her husband, who we thought was gone for good.

That leads me to another part. They all moved into a bigger place so they would save on rent. Now my MIL wants ASSHOLE to move back in with all of them!!!! He has no job but has a BAD Crack addiction. So now every one is mad at each other. And my MIL refuses to pay any rent, remember she has my BIL share so he cant pay his!

Wow and I thought having a gay SIL was going to be a problem. The other thing that pisses me off is how do we find all this drama out over the phone after A MONTH OF CALLING AND NO ONE ANSWERING. What if something bad had happened? What if I was pregnant and wanted to tell them the good news? What if we had gone into town for a suprise visit? If we were hurt? dead? ANYTHING? That pisses me off! If you get calls from your child's phone at least 3xs a day for 32 days doesnt that mean they need to talk to you? We called all the cell phones and work phones we knew, and neither one would call us back!

But the icing on the cake for me is this is all happening in front of a 4 year old! Nice right?

Now Justin is mad at me for stating the obvious, I know I should bite my tounge but I am hurt too. Ecspecially since the main reason we had started to call them every day was to surprise my MIL with a trip down here. We even tried calling on mother's day............no answer.


Wow I guess it is true what they say about in-laws!


Don't even get my started on my FIL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!